Go FiGure!

Major

2008-12-31T11:41:00.004+08:00

Gosh.... It's new year's eve and i am having major headache over here.... Yup... Am working today... unlike the lucky ones who have leaves to clear... zzzzz.......

So ya..... what a way to try to welcome in the new year... OK OK... I will end my year sulkingly... kekek... and shall welcome 2009 with open arms and grand positivity....

So No regrets for the year 2008... all tribulations are just tests of patience and lesson learnt... 2009 I await u....

Cheers and Jolly Be!!!

To those who are joining hands in holy matrimony...

2008-12-16T09:09:00.004+08:00

Haiyoyo...

Tonnes of weddings going on this months... I think for those who have lots of frens, chances for them to have frens who are getting married this month is very very high and it is also the time to see your wallet bleed... hahaha... from the 'joy' of receiving the big bomb to attending the wedding.... your wallet will bleed for sure.. aside from the angpows.. there is the bachelor night you need to bring the "soon to be not single person" to (*zzz.. evie and ah per) - guess most of you know the amount of money spent for a hot night out, nice food and booze.. zzzz..... then there is this colour coordinated theme for what you wear during the reception, the tea ceremony (zzz... if you are the Heng Tai (brothers) or the Ji Muis (sisters))... which means going to Robinson to get those dresses when it is on 50% discount (wkakakak.... yup buy on sales or else my wallet will not only bleed... it will just be buried, no chance of being resuscitate to life....

Wakakak... ok ok.. i am going out of point... the point is I am writing this to wish all the soon to be husbands and wives a holy matrimony.....and hope you cherish every moment of it... do not let the pre-wedding burden get to you... if u can go through this wedding preparation in peace with minimal arguements (for sure would have at least one or two), chances are you will do just fine in your new life....

So Have fun and enjoy... Oh ya... being maid of honour.. i was requested to do a speech during the dinner... soooo as usual i googled on how to write a MOH speech and try to see what i can come out with.. so Evie if the speech seems to be in bits and pieces that is because it was cut and paste from all over google... wakakka... but i will try to make it flow as nice as possible and add some personal touches here and there... =.=' huhuhuh.....

So i am leaving you will a poem I found from poemsforfree.com.... kekekeke

Marriage is the union of
A greater sum than two in love.
Relatives are made by rites
Relating in-laws to delights.
In bringing families together,
A million lives are changed forever.
Go then in joy, yourselves to please:
Each love shapes many destinies

2008-11-28T12:21:00.002+08:00

I want to kill this bride to be… sudahlah know that I have to support her (emoly and also physically) to prep for her wedding.. also knew that I have 2 projects going on simultaneously… now tak pasal pasal tag me… maybe due to the lack of post in my blog (busy and don know what to write)… so…. It’s Friday today, thank goodness.. now sitting in the office counting down the time… Still have some lots to do but I need a break so decided to do this tag and work at the same time (multitask.. heik heik)

1. Do you think you are hot?- If fat hanging down your belly is hot then I am DAMMNNN HOT!!!

2. Upload your favorite picture of you!

3. Why do you like that picture?- Coz my side profile is hot (face up only.. no need to see the rest of the body)

4. When was the last time you ate pizza?- Wakakak… with the woman who tagged me lah.. for her hen’s night where she was asked to sell condoms… we made big bucks man….

5. The last song you listen to?- Only time I get to listen to music is while driving.. so anything on Mix.fm…

6. What are you doing right now besides this?- Reading company brief and need to prepare proposal

7. What name would you prefer besides yours?- Though I am not too fond of my name… I’ve not been thinking of having another name… but my Chinese name (kill me please)

People to tag.

- My sis (if she still read blog)

- Mah jee (If he is not too busy preparing for his wedding)

- Ira (lama u din blog)

- Ili (heheheh.. never see u do tag)

- Esvary (if she still blogs)

8. Who is number 1?- Sista

9. Number three is having a relationship with?- Wakkaa… I dun know.. she din tell

10. Say something about number five?- Need to be chill abit

11. How about number four?Mama yang cantik

12. Who is number two?- A guy that spend thousands on toys!

Aiks!!!

2008-10-21T18:13:00.003+08:00

I would like to take some time to write about my weekend....

Well.... since my dear is working outstation I had a free weekend and coincidentally it was the weekend Ms Evie set to get her things done and do some shopping for her oh-so 'special' night.. then again they have been doing it already soooo i wonder how special it would be... wakakak (ok ok! don angry Ms Evie) I know it would be special as it would be the night you unleash the wild side of you...

Anyways... the weekend was supposed to be Evie shopping for her stuff... she spending money.. And I was pretty controlled throughout the entire shopping trip at Pavillion.... so spent nothing other than on Lunch and the RM15 dollars parking.. might as well park JOckey like Nicole only RM18... shit... but than again i think nobody would layan my Alonso (wakkak... satria)....

Soo..... ya.... then came Kariza... due to the big hype Evie had on this place, well this clothing item... I was expecting to get myself a piece or two ... well... we spent 2 hours there and I got 2 pieces there and it was a whopping RM400 total... well... at least there is 1000+ ways to wear it ... figuratively it would be like i am getting 1000 skirts for RM 400....that will be RM0.40 per skirt... (YEAH RIGHT!! that is wat i was telling myself to make myself feel better for i think it was a mistake getting them)... Me and Evie had deep thoughts after the purchase and thought that we could actually get better patters and do it outselves... well if Mae Mae would help... wakakka... coz i know nuts about sawing...

Anyways ya... RM400 fly just like tat (hope my dear dont see this).... because of this Kariza we got home late and got ready late for dinner and by the time we are ready for dinner it was 10.30pm.... *pulling hair!!! all the place we intended to go was no longer serving food....
So some Kuciao bellboy from Ritz Carlton suggested Shook at Star HIll.... ate a RM50 fettucine carbonara served only with bacon bitz.... zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz..... anyways... if it was great food i would not mind paying... franking i cook better pasta.. wakka

Wel.... I would like to write more about the entire weekend... but i am getting lazy... dont want to use my brain dy.... off working hours.. want to go home and cook myself some pasta... wakakak...

But Sunday was great ... ate at Bubba Shrimp, finally got to meet Mae Mae... ya.... MaeMae sooo shy... but i know somewhere inside her is a loud person waiting to jump out... welll i will see more of her loud side during Evie's bachelor party.....

So there you go... my weekend... money spent now have to think of a way to get back some of those money....

Anyways... am looking forward to this Thursday... going to Penang.. wakakakka..... for a long weekend... YEAH!!!!!!!

and evie... get my house done SOON!!!

Bluek!

What I want for Christmas....

2008-10-15T09:11:00.016+08:00

I know I know... christmas is still two months plus away but hey I need to at least alert u guys sooo u all will start saving up some money to help me fulfill my wishlist right???

Ok... so I will keep it to the list of ten (dont know if i can find ten things to wish for or if i will have trouble narrowing it down...) but ya... after reading this blog kindly put ur name at the comment column and which item you are going to get me... wakakakak... (in no particular order... coz I love them all the same)

1. Sunglasses - Gucci dragonfly shades

Been wanting to get this since 3 years ago... it might be out of fashion but I still love it and still want it... not that expensive ... hmmm... wonder why i did not buy them... but anyways... i still want them sooo please ....

2. Laptop - 15 inch ultra slim MacBoook Pro

Been needing to get a new computer since God knows when... and was saying to myself need to put aside some money monthly to save enough to get myself one... since I am no where new my goal... anyone willing to help me out?? please find in yourself a generous heart to help poor me... PUH-LEAZE!!!

3. Holiday

I love travelling and some times i really want my family to be able to enjoy what i enjoyed... so i really wish for us to make a trip to a beautiful beach resort (outside Malaysia of coz) so that we can experience a true vacation... So Mum if you are reading this.... bring us to Phuket, Bali, even Koh Samui.. and if you really want to splurge maybe Maldives.. but ultimate beach experience BORA BORA please..... hehehehe

4. Ultimate spa treatment (3 hours minimum)

I am a sucker for massages.... must get them once a month (well if wallet permits) but the ones i go is only 1 1/2 hours soooo I would really like to experience something that is at least 3 hours... sooo please make my dream come true....oh... i enjoy the soft massages aromatherapy type,.. not the hard core thai massage).. was kind of hoping to go for the Ultimate Manja package at Vila Manja for Evie's bridal shower (5hours plus) only RM300 what a steal but need to go in group of six... as normal per person is RM578... but... nuff said.. please get this for me as well.....

5. Handbags

Love handbags... from night market type to designer type... though i have a lot that is from in-between the two ends... soo you could get me something nice and unique from the night market in Bangkok or splurge a bit on me with this Michael Kors cashmere handbag (simple)... either way I will be happy.... oh ya and according to E... fringe is in this season... so what the heck....

6. Kariza

Was introduced to this beautiful piece of garment by Miss Evie... 1 garmet 100 ways of wearing them... wow... need to get my hands on them soon... but you could also get me one.... I think this is highly affordable... Do visit their website at http://www.karizadesigns.com/

7. A ring

Wakkkaka... this is added just to give some hint to somebody... wakakka ....... but if anyone wants to buy me diamond you are most welcome.... I do not need Tiffany & CO... Diamond and Platinum will do... wakakka... I love cross pendants...

8. Christian Louboutin

Every girl must owned at least a pair or two or three of Louboutin.... designs are simple yet sooo sexy.... Drool... please get me one.....

9. Perfume

Ah.... this is more affordable for anyones pocket... love perfumes.. love collecting them... but this 2 are the ones that I want but then again anything that comes in a nice bottle and spells sweet I would love... If u want to see what kind of perfume I adore... go check of Ferragamo Incanto (the blue bottled one) and J.Lo Live (the light green bottle one).... then u will roughly know my taste...

10. I-phone:

Envy my sister.. she got it for herself in Australia... way much cheaper... so sista if you are reading this... get me one!!!! (wakakakka... and she is younger than me and still studying but she pockets more money than my peanut paying job... so.... *with a cute face- hands clasp together - pretty please...

* Please note that these are only material things that I wish for... it does not mean i do not wish for other things... I pray every night for Love, Health and Peace for my love ones... Since this is all written by God I shall only consult him on it...heheheh...
So til then... enjoy saving your money to fulfill my wishlist... thanks in advance.....

Flu and all

2008-10-10T10:26:00.002+08:00

Hi ya.... was not feeling well yesterday and was on MC... at home no internet so no updates....

Evie was over at my place to do some renovation thingy.. yes she is my contractor (wakak.. not contractor to be exact but a middle person..)

But when at home I do not look like a sick person... today however am back in the office... my cough has gotten worse, have running nose... took my cough syrup and I can hardly open my eyes.. haiyoyo... and now it is just 10 plus in the morning.. time is passing by oh sooo slowly....

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz... (oppss dozed off a bit)... anyways... somebody please let me know how could I keep myself awake and entertained for the next 7 hours or so...............

Bored... so do tag

2008-10-08T17:53:00.002+08:00

I am feeling sooooo bored… which is why I decided to do this tag posted by Evie on frenster long long time ago….. (where is my life… zzzz)

What's something you really want right now, be honest!
- to feel a sense of accomplishment… to do something outrageous..

Do you plan out your day before it begins?
- Everything is always planned.. but to followthrough that is a different story… wakakka… I do not stick to plans… I think

What was your first thought when you woke up this morning?
- Haiz.. work….. ( I think I am contributing to myself feeling down)

How's your heart lately?
- Beating just fine and healthy… akakka.. somemore got love.. not kena kei sei…

Do you wet the toothbrush before the toothpaste?
-Urmm…. Yes… doesn’t everybody?

Where were you at 2:00 this morning?
- Sleeping like a pig….

Do you wear glasses?
-*yes when I am feeling lazy and when I have a dark cloud over my head (not in the mood means take payah dress up.. not dressing up means no need lenses lah.. glasses like ah mah enuff)

When is your birthday?
- 4th March 1981 (not yet sampai the big 3-0 so still can review the year).. wakakkaka

What were you doing at 8:00 this morning?
- Getting ready to go to work (zzz… was supposed to meet evie at 8.30 but she manage to forget about our arrangement)

What were you doing 30 minutes ago?
- Proposal for one of our client… last minute thing… I was dreading the time passing soooo slow as I nothing to do then lady boss gave me something to do.. so yeah… and I complete the task in 15 minutes (task not easy… I am just efficient)

How do you feel about the person who texted you last?
- my dear dear… love love love

Are you a jealous person?
- wakakaka… yes… I am the queen….

Are you tired right now?
- actually I am just restless… damn sien…

Do you chew on your straws?
- No.. No no… i find it irritating… since Evie say Eileen does it… IRRITATING!! Wakakak do refrain urself from doing it when I am around…

What's your favorite room in your house?
- Living room… Always in front of my TV lazing the days away…

Last inbox message from?
-Evie on Pinkster raya open house…

How many children do you plan on having?
- 2 (a big kor kor and a little mei mei)

Are you texting right now?
- Duh…

Do you trust people?
- Depends… not generally

Have you ever cried from being so mad?
-Hmm… if the mad is driven by the person I love then yes I do cry…

What high school did/do you attend?
- Chung Hua Miri (GO GO GO --- wakakak… I am actually not very wat do u call that oh ya.. I do not have big school spirit)

What are you excited for?
- Love, family, travel and food… doing something..

What did you do last night?
- ate my leftover potato salad, watched tv, talked to dear dear & mum, then peel kacang kulit (sad case)

What's the longest you have talked on the phone to someone?
-Har… cannot recall wor…Don’t really like to cook porridge on phone

When was the last time you laughed?
- I am always happy except for today…

Have you ever been stalked?
- Har… don’t think so… Not hot enough…

Do you read often?
- Reading blogs count??
Who do you really want to see right now?
- My dear dear and my sis…

What do you wear more, jeans or sweats?
- Jeans

Where was your default Friendster picture taken?
- Phuket,,,

Who's your last missed call?
- some weird number… call back number not in service..EEeEE

Do you always wear your seat belt?
-Yes… it’s a habit and a good one too..

What is something you need to go shopping for?
- Evie’s lingerie.. wakakakka… excited *with evil grin

Has anyone ever given you roses?
-Of coz… but I love lilies and I just got them from dear dear for our anniversary.. wakakka

Are you normally a happy person?
- Yes… cept when I am working… (this place is just tooo quiet for me to exposed my tail)

How many months are there until your birthday?
- now to March.. you count..

Do you own any kind of yellow clothing?
- Yes two blouse.. wore one of them twice… the other one yet to wear.

What makes your bedroom unique?
- hmm… our collection of soft-toys (now officially known as Fa-mer-wee)

What are you looking forward to in the next three months?
-Evie’s wedding, family coming over and holidays!!

The "WOULD YOU?" section:
Would you rather love one person or have many short relationships?
- I am a sucker for love but once I love one person it is for that person only until of coz when the trust is broken!!

Would you move anywhere else if you could?
- Yes… some place peaceful, relaxing, no hassle and stress free

If you were given 10 million dollars to keep, what would you do with it?
Travel, house, all done together with my family and dear dear oh and I donate too ok… I am a humanitarian.. wakakkaka

The "CURRENT YEAR" section:
Are you the same person as you were at the beginning of the year?
- Har!! How I know…

Anything exciting happen this year?
- as long as it involves going on holiday it is exciting…

Are your best friends still your best friends?
- I am a sucker at keeping in touch soo… primary school, high school, college best fren all tak sama… my self-proclaimed bff also don contact me too busy with his work (MAL).. and the other one… now giving me a lot of things to do… wakakka *stractch head

Drained

2008-10-08T10:02:00.002+08:00

Its one of those days that you feel sorry for yourself... wondering what the F*** u are doing with your life... is there more to life than coming to work - sitting in front of the computer - working your arse off (with a bit of net browsing ..*shush) and at the end of the day return home and wait for the next day to come and doing the same thing again.... Maybe it is just me.. (no life... sudah jadi ah-mah) .. i really need to find something to do that will bring back the fire in me... something that would make me look forward to the days to come.... I am feeling a bit drained......

I do not know what I am going to do to change how I am feeling now but definitely I need to do something... I love dogs, travelling and eating... wonder where can i go from there.... take up a hobby.. or maybe just go to church and pray (mum will be glad! Praise the Lord she will say!).. I need to find myself and do something I like to do... We are growing old by the seconds... need to take up the courage and make the change.... or else we would just look back and say 'what if'...

I have a great relationship with my family and my dear dear, that is something I am thankful for.... so this is where reality set in again... need to be mature cant take the risk to do something else ... so at the end of the day... it is still returning to the old ways and waiting for the day I will feel like this once again... SAD CASE!!!

I might not take a big risk of stopping my job and start doing something I like... but I will definitely find something to do that will fulfill at least a bit of my life purpose wakakak... volunteer at SPCA... wat say you??

*Oh ya one more thing... MS EVIE NG aka Calvin's wife.... You are supposed to take the keys from me this morning.. where were you!!! *FUMING WITH ANGER!!! you are soooo dead meat... heheheh

wakakka

2008-10-07T09:38:00.004+08:00

Ello..... in view that my blog has been abandon for months... just thought i write a few words...

Am busy busy with work (no longer working in the world peace company)... heading towards a different direction - market research... am still new so taking time to take in as much as I can...

Am also busy preparing for certain someone's wedding.... wat to do... who ask me to be that person's bff (right?)... hahahha...

Oh ya... besides that just moved in to my mum's new place... you see within a few months... soooo many changes.... need time to settle down ok!!

Thats all folks.... hmm... this short blog updates could really work.... less than 5 minutes kao tim... i drag updating my blog because i love posting long winded ones... so now might switch flavour and do short postings... hopefully will be able to update regularly....

Cheers!

My take on Valentine….

2008-02-15T16:56:00.003+08:00

After reading numerous blogs on Valentine… I must say most of them thought that valentine is overrated and it is too commercialized like Christmas… hmm… some even think day world f*** day (haha… can’t write the full F word coz my blog rated U...suitable for all viewers..) for x rated blog visit X’s…. maybe evie’s also (*recalling the blog on vegetation).. hiak hiak…Anyways… back to the topic…. How did I spend my valentine??? Here goes….

First before I start writing… I must mention that I am FOR valentine… hahha… any excuse to get pressies…. To get flowers… so ya… I was a bit bumped for not being able to spend my V day with my dear (first year u know.. must celebrate together mar)… all because I bought my CNY flight ticket to Miri a year ago… when I was heart broken, without knowing that you would come to my rescue (a-hem, a-hem)…By the way.. I am back in Miri for my chinese new year holiday for freakin 21 days… (thanks to office for letting me take such a long leave)…thinking that I will enjoy countless hours of mahjong session but nobody want to entertain me… wuhuhuhu….

So ya… Valentine Day come… I am here feeling especially down… not feeling really well also… flu and cough from eating all the junk food on the table…. Its was around five when I was crapping with u guys on milking …. In came my sis with her bouquet of flowers… hahaha… not make up of flowers but tiny cutie toy key chain… it was quite cute actually… hehehe… tambah lagi my downward feeling… but I know that my dear dear will make it up to me when I return… By the way.. he is away working in Penang…

Then sis was all excited on what to wear for her dinner… hahah… soo cute like little school girl going to the prom (haha.. I am writing this to annoyed her)… she did not want to wear something to extravagant … so seek my muah (very professional) opinion… so off she was going to Marriot for her dinner …. My thoughts: Children nowadays… rich and loaded… that dinner cost her boyfren about RM300 ++… plus the flower… I think he spend about RM500 ++… what happened to good all dinner for two at home… in the candlelight… soft music.. rose petals… and lots of aphrodisiac food…hahhaha… then u know what happen after tat… gone was those days huh children?? Hahaha (punya tua I am feeling now)…

So the house left mama, papa and me… Ya ya… I suddenly terjadi 5000 WATT spotlight… so we went out for dinner… first stop… Miri café… Full of love birds… so skip… next stop Discovery… Not that much people But.. yes BUT tables as only for couples… WTF….. so in the end we end up in the street corner’s foodcourt… BLUEK!! I know I am not single and I do in fact pity those single ppl at this time of the year… I told the waiter people at DISCOVERY… “single people kasihan ooo… have to cook maggie mee at home!” hiak hiak….

After the long wait for our food to come at the foodcourt… we headed home… I called dear to complain about me feeling lonely and hinting that everybody got flowers.. hiak hiak,,,, but anyways… one thing I learn from this is: eat maggie mee at home if ur partner is not there to celebrate with u…” hahaha…. But I am sure if I am in KL… it will be a whole different story… there is a lot of other things to do with the almost not existing lonely soul club… it is just tat I am more to staying at home when I am in Miri… Period… heeehehee…

Oh ya… what did I get my dear for valentine?? I send him a card before chinese new year.. a big one.. but belum receive lagi,… pos Malaysia punya pasal…. and something else…cant reveal now.. for fear he will read it before I can hand him the gift… hehehe…
Anyways… I hope that u all enjoy ur V day… remember everyday is Valentine with the people you love, your partner, your family, your frens and of course with ur pet…. Show them all appreciation everyday and not do it only once a year on February 14… k???

I will report on what my dear did to make it up to me…hehhe… finger cross….

What Happened??

2008-02-13T11:58:00.006+08:00

Suddenly it became obvious…. I am indeed getting older… wuhuhuhu… and not getting prettier by age.. not getting any finer by age too ala red wine… wuhuhu once again….. oh ya where is my manners… greetings people.. it has been a long long long long time… since I last updated….

And ya like x- the old fart mentioned… u might need to get a jab before reading my blog… coz sudah lama berkarat… but really I dun know wat to write about.. my creativity gene is just not that strong… I cannot think of something interesting to blog about… mainly maybe because I have just been sitting around at home (am in miri by the way).. staring at the TV.. not to mentioned munching on CNY treats that are placed on the tables for unexpected visitors… so food supply getting low… waistline expanding.. go figure… wakkaka…

As for gambling… nobody want to play mahjong with me… coz I am just to darn good (wakkakaka)… Evie *wink *wink, right??? Hiak hiak… anyways… remember we have an appointment with Calv to empty his pocket kekekeke….

Hmmm… wat else… 21 days I need to spend here in Miri… basically just relaxing… nothing much to do… just trying help my sis think what she needs to bring to Australia… she will be leaving to Brisbane on the 19th… my poor mama will be so lonely without my annoying sister around to annoyed here….. How is it that she get to study in Brisbane whereas I have to settle for Adelaide two years back…. Huhuhu…. Anyways… I do miss Australia…. Things are pretty laid back there… not to mention the chocolates… the yummy juices and also lots and lots of cheap clothing (come in my size) hiak hiak hiak….

Anyways… it have been one year since the turn of event (those close to me will know what I am talking about)… and frankly speaking things couldn’t be better… I’ve learnt a lot…. And my future couldn’t have been brighter now…

So… there u go… u can say that I am writing this just for the sake of writing something.. wakakka.. just to pass sometime.. Instead of grabbing hold of that bowl of cashew nuts and munching away…. Hhehehe.. so there u go… BE3 is still alive… hehehe…

Tag by Evie

2007-11-26T10:56:00.000+08:00

hmmm.... here I was enjoying reading blogs on a lonely Friday Night in my Hotel Room in Penang.. knowing tat some people out there are having fun at a certain Hotspot in The curve.. laughing away, crapping away, sweeping away (this is calv.. but from his feedback he din do much sweeping) and most importantly dancing away (hope evie wont get back cramp.. coz sudah tua.. tak boleh grind masih nak grind.. haiz... some more without me!!).. read Evie's blog and saw her aunty Looking photo slap rite in front of my screen (almost kena nightmare).. hahah.. but it was actually how she looked like when she first started working at a certain magazine place (bluek)... heheh.. which made me have a short reflecting session (humming the tune ~MEMORIES~ )..

hiak hiak hiak... i've been tag to put on my most stupid picture of yourself doing the most stupid / lame / weird / embarassing act that someone asked you to pose for a picture (copy paste exactly from Evie's blog)... and then ta another 5 person to do it!

So EnJoy!!

hmm... after searching high and lows... inside and outside of my computer.. this is the photo that i got... coz really hard for me to get a stupid photo (as stupid ones will be immediately deleted).. futher more i always look hot posing in my signature 45 degree head shot look... hiak hiak...

I din delete this stupid looking photo coz it is hard to get a bunch of crazy women drunk and do crazy things... things tat happened before and after this photo was taken is strictly 18SX.. heheheh... And futher more i am putting this up without the permission from the ladies... hiak hiak... but i will bare all consequences... heheheh....( am bound to kena shoot!!) all to keep Calv's Tag alive... heheheh....

Ok... photo taken at Luna Bar...celebrating 2 colleague's farewell... Donna and Jess... things got quite out of hand.. after just a few shots of vodka... this is to show that we are always good girls and just a bit of drink will make us go Kar-A-Zee!! hehehe... sorry Evie.. din bawa u to this place.. hehehehe...

So here u are folks... My Most Stupidest Photo... hehehe... Girls Gone WIld Wrongly!! Hope u guys wont puke ur lunch out while looking at the photos!! Cheers!!

So here are the 5 person that i wanna tag:

1. Onn ONn

2. Nis NIs

3. Mal

4. Sista

5. Ira!

FooD FooD FooD!

2007-11-21T14:08:00.000+08:00

Dearest...

I dun know why but suddenly i was in search of food review blogs.... Maybe because i was deprived from fine dinning recently and am really craving to search for the best place to eat , so when the oppurtunity arise (as in when my dear dear allow or is in a generous mood to bring me eat Luxuriously), i would have the hot places to chow rite at my finger tips!

So here i am.. going through blogs after blogs... most blogs were food reviews and i managed to came across some blogs with recipe... since my goal is to get married and breed .. the rite thing for me to do to better prepare myself to reach for my stars is to start learning to cook.. (not that i dun know how.. it is just tat i dun know wat to cook).. hiak hiak hiak... so watch this space as i aim to document all my trails and tribulations in the cooking world!! heheheh!

So Hot mama's and Pimp daddy's the links for the food blogs can also be access through this web page of mine... at the right corner!! Enjoy reading...

InDulGe With Me~~

2007-11-19T14:19:00.000+08:00

Date: 13th Nov 2007
Weather: Bright, Hot, Sunny until Smelly armpit
Location: Melaka
Purpose: Eat, eat n eat
Time Spend: 5 hours
The Gang:
May (the person who u can say anything about her as long as u put the word 'mei' as in pretty at the front of the sentence! for example when u want to call her aunty, make sure u call her Mei aunty! then she is happy.. hiak hiak... siao poh),

Sunny (the always hamsap who has specific time to do his breeding exercise, 8pm-10pm to be precise, if u want to ask him for dinner make it is before or after the allocated time, or else he wont entertain u.. he needs to be in his room),
Nicky (the person who always when go for hair cut ask the hair-dresser to give him the hair cut that make him look thinner, terbalik kena shot by the stylish saying why not he try exercising instead.. doink doink) > four of us in one car!! and another two (titi and donna --> forbidded to talk about their relationship) in another car... hiak hiak hiak

Summary of event:
10.45am (roughly)
depart for melaka the four of us.. with hungry stomach as me and sunny did not get any food before hand. Luckily pretty May tapao some siew pao for us when we meet up at nicky's place... then off we go!! Before leaving, we were actually contemplating whether to just go jalan-jalan cari makan around Klang Valley or waste the money to go down to Melaka… I am for anything as long as good food goes into my system… so after just a brief hmm… Melaka we went!!

12.30pm (really din take note of the time, saje saje lah)
Reached our first destination:
SATAY (which have satay babi, purpose was to eat the chu yok satay.. hiak hiak)
The shop:
Located at Kota Laksamana, the shop lot tat is parallel to the Kumon Centre’s shop lot and facing the sea.
Comment:
Not as good as I expected them to be, hmmm maybe I am not so use to eating ZuZu satay.. so I only ate 5 sticks (well I was saying my stomach for chicken rice and cendol)… Nicky was our record holder- eating 25 sticks despite the fact that he was actually suppose to be on strict diet so tat he can pass his SIA interview the following weekend… So much for ur hot sexy bod honey!! Hahaha! Sunny and May managed to almost hit the 20 sticks mark..
Price: RM0.50 per stick regardless of the type of meat!
Rating:
Hmmm… I would give it a 5/10 (heard that it is not the best one in town and because I did not eat that much of it) the satay sauce however was quite unique, it is a mixure of normal satay sauce with pineapple.. creating a more tangy feel to it!

An hour later:
Melaka Famous chicken rice ballz
The Shop:
The one that is on ur right as u pass the bridge, coming in from the red red building (sorry ah… history louya, cannot recall the name of that square/ building).. it is the shop tat is quite rundown with quite big signage located right beside the river)
Comment:
I was always a fan of chicken rice… but this time round, the ballz were not really nice.. the chicken however was soft, moist and smooth to the mouth.. UH lala…
Managed to eat 3 ballz… nicky again our champion ate about 8 balls (as usual.. )
Price:
We paid RM4.50 each x 6 = RM27, we had half chicken and 4 plates of ballz… each plate with 5 balls) so u do the calculation… hehehe….
Ratings:
I love the chicken so I give them a 7/10 but the rice only 2/10 in my books…

After chicken rice… some of our stomach was already bloated (ahem Sunny, almost need to unfasten his belt- good thing his laopoh not here or else kena pull ear for overeating)… so we decided to take a walk around the street of Melaka, the famous Jonker street… we are sort of like tourists.. going into shops looking at souvenirs under the blazing hot sun… armpit watery, and even other parts of the body was excreting salty water… hiakhiak…

Din manage to buy anything as I was under limited funds… coz need to save money to buy house mah.. hahaha… after just walking for least then half and hour… there we go… the famous durian chendol store was rite in front of us… It was like Heaven’s gate… in front of us.. Luring us in… ALLELUAI!!! I love the interior of this cendol shop… Typical old Melaka shop house,… it gave us the feeling of olden days Melaka… but I forgot to take photos.. darm…was too busy savoring on my durian chendol… YUMZ!!!

The Food:
Dessert (durian chendol)
The Shop:
Along Jonker street.. slightly after geographer… it sells excellent laksa and cendol.. it is in a middle shop lot.. really cant remember what is the name… sorry!
Comment:
After a hot sweaty day outside.. the first taste of the cendol was MAGICAL!!! The cooling effect… unforgettable… However, I would enjoy it more if I have more durian paste!! Cant really taste the durian!! Haiz…
Price:
RM2.70 per bowl… cheap for the satisfaction that it brought me!!!
Ratings:
9/10 almost perfect but still lacking on the amount of durian paste that the laopan niang gave us!! Hehehe…

After chendol we continue walking coz my main reason of going to Melaka was to get me some of those delicious pineapple tarts! Got 2 boxes… the shop was recommended by Sunny but… when I got a taste of the tarts.. it wasn’t up to my expectation.. damn Sunny… only give them tarts a 3/10…

I am in search for the best pineapple tarts… anybody know where I can get them?? Or u bake them for muah?? Coz the best so far I tried was baked by my mum’s bff… until now ‘NOTHING COMPARES! NOTHING COMPARES to u~~~~” hahaha… but she is no longer staying in Miri so I cant have them during Chinese new year dy… huhuhu..

So Help me go figure where I can find the best pineapple tart plz!!!

The Famous Melaka CHicken Rice Ballz

Ms May aka her mother say she is MEI!

The Porky Satay

I am Still Alive....

2007-11-12T10:38:00.000+08:00

HIak Hiak Hiak....

It has indeed been a while since i last wrote a blog... about 2 or 3 months plus.... and no fraid i am still alive and kicking (well maybe not as hard as i wish i could) but ya... still very much alive... Could not say that i am too busy to update my blog... coz i still do NUTS when i come into the office in the morning...

hmm... this got me thinking... like Nis Nis and Mah Jee say... maybe some of us do only blog when we feel down and lonely and rarely blogs when we are happy... (well of coz not for those loyal bloggers like Evie, x or Princess)... you think??

Anyways... if you are those 'smart' once that can read between the lines... yes... i am living one of the most happy days of my life... having a special someone as my rock and support... and to keep the usually notti me focus... jahhaha (ok ok i am not going to go into the mushy mushy ladida) but then again if you guys really want to know how i am doing... i am seriously really happy with my private life (sounds so celebrity-liked) now...

As for work... Fire burns with passion and fire fizzles as water is constantly sprinkled on the passion of fire... work now is more like a routine, i really wish things here at work will change for the better and re-spark my power and drive to work again...

hmm.... wat else can i update on... oh ya ... my family... all are well too... my beloved lolo is getting old, hopefully she could be my ring bearer heheheh... (my old dog dressed in bridemate gown holding our rings on her back... hahah... maybe evie can make her the gown)...

Another update i suddenly remember... my diet plan.. NOT WORKING!! or more to not even working to make it work... coz it all went cuckoo somewhere in between .. don know where, dont know how and dont ask... basically i am still the clumsy fat but at times hot chick... hahahah.... well if u don look at the bottom half of my body!! i can still pass as an hot chick... hahahaha... muka punya tebal....

Thats about it.... i am now in the getting married and breed mood... hahah... but plans cannot be realized until 2 or 3 years from now.. coz to get married and breed is not an easy task... we need to make sure we could provide for our future generation... rite?? hehehe but planning is in progress.... so maybe my next update will be on this session of my life... US working on building a family together ala 'til death do us part, reality show of dave and carmen electra' minus the money... that is why we need 2 to 3 years... hahaha....

So thats all folks.... with high hormones rising.. biological clock thinking... I will end with a Go Figure~ How i am feeling rite now!! hahahaha...

7 things to lift up ur mood!

2007-08-30T12:02:00.000+08:00

Ok… boys and girls… ladies and gents…. Today I would blog on something that will benefit all of us… especially those working in a certain ‘holy’ organization.. feeling drain and maybe you would feel that it is the end… your heat is already upto your head… your ears are oozing with black smoke… your eyes blood shot… But wait… don’t jump down from 13A just yet ok??? Just try out this few pointers that I get from the net, written by Dr. Maoshing Ni… if this does not leave up your mood… then go ahead and jump… ok??? Heheheh….. So here goes……….

So… before u go on fuming.. thinking tat the world is against you… thinking that nobody loves you.. thinking tat you are useless… pause for a minute… this is just a mood… something tat will pass.. why put soo much energy on feeling the way u are feeling?? A bad mood not only gives you a gloomy outlook, it also lowers your immune function, leading the way to illness.

Here are some suggestions to lift your mood, your spirit, and your health. First comes the explanation by the professional and at the end of each point is my point of view… hiak!! Enjoy!

1. A Laughing Matter

"Laugh Therapy," pioneered by Norman Cousins, has turned out to have real substance. Research has discovered that laughter and joy boost immune functions, especially the production of the natural killer cells that help defend the body from illness and cancer. Laughter also increases the release of endorphins - compounds that give you a sense of well-being - in your brain. Without a doubt, joyful people live longer and healthier lives. So read your favorite comics, watch your favorite comedies, and laugh it up!!

Ya… just lighten up a bit… read the forwarded mindless emails that could be at time be so uplifting…go for a drink after work aka happy hours with ur workmates to talk about asses in ur company and make fun of their “WISH” .. remember this should be a light session sooo dun over stress yourself with frustration ya… it wont bring you anyway!

2. Amino Acid for Restored Mindset

When an imbalance or deficiency is creating a bad mood, the Europeans use supplements of a natural compound found in human cells to regulate mood and restore a healthy mindset. SAMe (S-adenosyl-L-methionine) is produced from methionine, an amino acid that plays a role in the production of uplifting neurotransmitters like serotonin and dopamine. One study indicated that SAMe worked on patients who had unsuccessful results with conventional antidepressants. To get a boost from SAMe, take a supplement combining it with vitamins B6 and B12.

Aiks… this is too complicated for me… no explanation for those who understand.. then u can elaborate on it… hahahha…. Dun rely too much on supplements to control ur mood… U ARE THE ONE IN CONTROL!

3. Hands-On Healing

Human touch increases the production of endorphins, growth hormone, and DHEA, all of which lengthen your life span and lower the negative impact of stress. Studies have found that patients who are regularly touched recover faster than those who are not touched. So give someone a hug and feel both of your moods improve.

Hahah… ladies and gents… don’t freak if I give u a cheeky slap on ur butt… hahah…. I am just being nice trying to give u a human touch to lift up ur mood… see how generous I am… hahaha…

4. Boost Your "Youth Hormones"

You don't need pills to flood your body with a rejuvenating flood of growth hormones. Research has found that doing squats and leg presses will greatly increase your natural production of the "youth hormone". Increased growth hormone translates to an elevated mood, among other physical benefits. Keep it up with weight training, knee bends, push-ups, and rowing.

Haiyo… u know wat does that all sum up to??? Yes… exercise… YANTI n DONNA… EXERCISE… dun be lazy…. Come join true fitness with me!! EVIE!!! U know wat we should do!! Hahah not only for mood purposes (coz we are happy people) but for certain other purposes.. hhaha!

5. Take a Bracing Breath

Breathing correctly is important for dispelling the toxins and wastes from your body; in fact, it is estimated that we expel only about 30 percent of toxins in our bodies through the bowels and bladder-the rest is all respiratory. Breathing is also a great way to clear your mind, boost your energy, and improve your mood. Practice deep, slow, rhythmic, breathing daily with mind-body disciplines such as tai chi, yoga, qigong, and meditation.

Ok…. (currently in my best meditating posture.. ummmm…..mmm….feeling my head…. Mmm….. now relax everything else and feel ur right arm… mmmm….) aiks….. hahaha ok ok… I dun think yoga is for me just yet coz I cant stand quietness… soo maybe I would just stick to martin lawrence’s Bad Boy 2 relaxation method… rub top of the ear and goo UUHHSSS—SSAAA!!! Hhahah

6. Smell the Joy

Research has shown that smell has a definite impact on our bodies and minds. When you stimulate the olfactory nerves inside your nose, you activate the limbic system of your brain, which is associated with moods and memory. This concept is instrumental to aromatherapy, a natural health tradition that makes use of the healing powers of plants with strong scents.

Aromatherapy recommends treating depression with jasmine, eucalyptus for exhilaration, and grapefruit to increase alertness and joy. Just put a dab of the essential oils from these plants on your temples, back of your neck, or acupressure points. Another option? Boil the herb in water and inhale the steam through your nose.

Hmmm… this is soooo ideal… hahaha… give me all the more reason to go for aromatherapy massage… hiak hiak… this seriously work and is seriously relaxing… but if u have wallet problem don go doing it.. because it will just give u more stress by the end of the day.. coz now u need to find ways to pay for the credit card that u just swipe for ur 60 minutes aromatherapy session that cost u rm120!!! NO NO NO!! - spoken by the experienced… from the mouth of a victim…

7. Feel Fine with Flowers

There is a reason that flowers are the traditional get-well gesture. Colorful flowers have a powerful influence on moods; they can uplift a patient's mood and even combat stress. One study found that during a five-minute typing assignment, people sitting next to a flowering bouquet were more relaxed than those who sat near foliage-only plants.

Hahah… now u know why I actually adapted this article to get to this point… flowers!!! Where art thou my flowers?? My lilies…. Haiz… still far away!!! So baby.. Another reason why ladies love flowers.. we are smart human beings… we know that flowers bring about well-being… so hahahah.. *wink *wink

So…. These are the few points that Dr. Mao suggested… but do u have any other secret remedy for bad moods?? Do tell…. Coz u know ur bad mood is not only bad for urself… it is also giving our negative energy to others…

so before u start throwing a tantrum… just sit back do ur UUHHHSSS SAAAA… think about wat u wanted to do just now (remember throwing the tantrum??) why you want to do it?? Will it get you anywhere if you did it?? If the answer is no.. then why do it??? Is it worth making urself looked like a fool?? Go have a break instead… if it is nothing too serious.. make a joke out of it….

Love Others but most importantly Love YOURSELF!!

Top 10 Romantic Gesture!

2007-08-24T16:15:00.000+08:00

Romanticism….. hmmm…. What actually is romanticism…. Hehehe…. Read the blog by Evie on this matter… which is pretty interesting… it suddenly gave me well… can I say high… or just sudden rush of joy just thinking about my own definition of “Romanticism”…. Well before I bla out about my perspective of the idea… Let me give you the definition of the word from Dictionary.com … they define the term Romanticism as Romantic spirit of Tendency!

Well.. well… interesting…. How do I perceive romantic gesture??? What to me is romantic?? Hmm… and why the heck am I writing this for anyways??/ hahahah…. Maybe just to hint some of you out there on things that can spark my fire… hahahah…. Hey.. for those guys who are attached… maybe I could provide you with some useful ideas that will turn your ladies eating out from your hand… *wink *wink So..…

I might as well just come out with a top 10 list of what I think is romantic…. Will I go over the board and come out with something crazy??? You would just have to wait and see!!! Here is my top 10 list of romantic gestures a man can give his woman:

10. Unexpected SMS

A very simple gesture… In fact I get this a lot from my baby and I think is pretty romantic… Waking up in the morning to find that there is a message of sweet words from your man…. It is a perfect way to kick-start our day! Thanks babe… coz you are already practicing this!! * Muacks!

9. Walk at the beach

This is adapted from Evie… just like a scene out of a romantic movie… why are there sooo many romantic movies having beach scene?? DUH! Coz it is romantic… and it is just beautiful to walk down the sandy beaches with your man by your side, whispering into my ears sweet words and also cracking up jokes every now and then… After a stroll, sitting by the beach, sipping coconut and watching the sunset… priceless… Of coz things to note: Do not choose beaches like PD…. With rubbish all over… spoils the ambiance and mood… Guys, plan carefully coz the surroundings of the whole thing also plays a role! Soo… choose a nice clean beach…i.e Redang… heheh… *hint *hint

8. Honesty

Will I be kicked in the behind if I say the world nowadays lacks honesty? Well… it is not like men like to lie but sometimes there just choose not to tell the truth because they think that the truth will bring about negative effect… but truth is guys… it is better to tell the truth and be straightforward rite from the start… rather than her finding out later… which she will relate it to you cheating on her… ok??? Learnt my lesson once and I now think honesty is the best policy! Honesty is not only a romantic gesture; it also shows love and respect. The feeling of a person wanting to open up to you, letting you know his every feeling is just indescribable.

7. Taking the lead

No this is not about dancing ala Antonia Bandares, well it doesn’t hurt if the guy love to dance and want to take you dancing (added bonus)… but ya.. back to my point…It is good to have your partner taking the initiative to plan for something, even simple things like just bringing you out for a walk at the park (aka Putrajaya or Titiwangsa or FRIM *hint *hint), a night out with dinner and a movie. Well the romantic feeling comes when all the girl need to do is sit back and enjoy the evening away and see her man taking charge of the whole evening… the effort that we see is how we define romance!

6. Weekend

Of course when it comes to romanticism… a weekend getaway is a must in my list! A weekend just the for two… could be anywhere in the world or even if it is just a night stay at Cameron highlands… Just being able to spend time with each other at another place is romance enough… again need not be an expensive one… and please to make the weekend extra special… don’t bother to answer any calls… turn off the phone… enjoy walks around the hotel, do activities indoors (if you know what I mean), order room service… anything… just an escape from the outside world… without thinking about anything else but feeling love…. Ahhhh….. a sweet escape!

5. Sweating it out in the kitchen

Actually this could be at the top of my list… yet to experience this but ya… might be funny for some of you but to me…. Seeing my man in the kitchen preparing dinner for the both of us… with sweat falling down from his forehead… that is ROMANTIC…. Ah…. I wish!!

4. Unexpected visit

Life is full of surprises and some surprises could bring lots of delight! For example, your man suddenly being at my door step just to give you a kiss on your cheek and to look you in the eyes and say that he loves you! I find this particularly romantic…. But guys beware… don’t do it when you already plan with your girl that you want to see them and just saying you want to cancel it just so that you could give her this surprise… because despite your good intention… the thought of you wanting to cancel the date will already make her go bananas… soooo don’t plan it this way….. Instead.. pick a day where you actually planned not to see each other coz both of you have something else to attend to… knowing when she will be back home… knock on the door and give her the surprise… she will be more than happy to see you and you might get something in return (*wink *wink… but don’t do it with the intention of something in return… do it because you want to)

3. TLC

Nothing means more than all the tender loving care that you can give. A woman feels loved just by you showing that you are. The concern look in you eyes when she tells you that she is not feeling well… the making sure of her reaching home save and sound… you putting her first and your frens second (might be hard to do… but just show her that).. you being there when she needs you the most, being a great listener… that is one of the greatest romantic gesture ever!

2. A Massage

After a hard day of work, bones aching and all… You were just laying there browsing the net or just reading somebody’s blog…. Your man just sit behind you and give you a long back rub… without expecting anything in return… he just want you to relax and enjoy the rub…. He is happy when he sees the smile forming from the corner of your mouth when he is massaging you!! After the rub… he just holds you in his arms until you are sound asleep… How romantic is that!! Awwww…. I wish I wish!! *Hint *Hint and *Wink *Wink to you baby!

1. Everything adds-up

Actually it is quite tough for me to come out with this list… because I, like Evie, too think that it is the combination of little things that he does daily… the smile he put on your face, he putting you above everything else, just him holding you, he showing that he cares. It is the things that we do with each other, the time we spent enjoying each other’s company… all this actually does not cost anything… it is the effort that each put in to make keep the sparks in the relationship.

So to sum things up… ROMANTICISM is little things that both of us do to make each other happy. It does not necessary involve expensive things… it is just being there for each other, holding them when they feel insecure, making them smile again when they are down! Him suddenly holding me and hugging me from behind when I am doing the dishes, ironing my clothes or putting my makeup on, putting his arms around me when we are walking… That to me is ROMANTICISM!

I think I also need to mention this…. FLOWERS and occasional surprise gifts… definitely a symbol of romance… hahahah!!

Once again this is just my thoughts on things... ok?? from my personal point of view on what i think is romantic when done on me... I on the other hand knows nothings about how i can romance my man... so what i need is more input from u all out there..especially the guys... tell me how u see romanticism... so i might learn a thing or two from u!! cheers!

Hmmm....My Celeb Look-Alike

2007-07-12T11:12:00.001+08:00

Hmmm...... I was looking through one of my frens' webpage and noticed that he had this link to this webpage to show who is ur celebrities look-alike.... curious... (thinking that maybe i look like angelina jolie or maybe a little J-Lo)...heheheheh ...i went on logging on to the website...and loaded my photos...and this is what i got!!

Thoughts on each look-alike:

The highest look-alike :
Jolin Tsai : 78% (aiyer..... dont like her....eeeee.... help me...but then again she did get to date Jay Chou...hehehe...one of my favorite 'chinese singer' I only have a few)

Second place:
Nakama Yukie: 74% (hmmm...dont know anything about her...but only that she is a japanese singer and actress...our eyes maybe...but not the chin rite??)

3rd place:
Son Ye-Jin: 73% (again no idea who this beautiful lady is "of coz i must say that she is beautiful or else how else can i say that i am beautiful but i think she is quite famous amongst those who watch korean drama....one word for her... HOT!! come to think of it maybe i do look like her "being perasan"...)

Followed by Matsu Takako (67%) according to a website she is known for her laid back and relaxing style of music.....hmmm... maybe she could be my muse... i need some relaxing tips.....

Michelle Branch (66%)....hahaha.... cant believe this... but hmmm... if i am not mistaken somebody i know likes her a lot..hmm.... *wink wink.... tell me do we look-alike??? highly doubt it!

Hahhaha.... this particular celebrity when i saw her name popped up...i was laughing to my bones.... my gosh how i wish... Shu Qi... 66% look-alike...hahahah.... this sexy mama... (Evie..woman..hahaha i look like Shu QI wor....wat do u say??)... also she is my baby's favourite actress... i cant really find the similarity... u tell me again... but am flatter in a way..coz she is hot but also not in a way coz she DO NOT KNOW how to act!!

Finally the unimaginable MIscha Barton 66%.... aiks.... which part of me looks like her... total opposite....make me wonder if this site is for real...haiz...then again... i was seriously hoping to look like a cross between Jeniffer Lopez, Angelina Jolie and Jessica Alba...hahahah... hey u cant stop me from dreaming....

Anyways...Cheers and Have Fun for the day...the week is coming to an end.... If u are as bored as me while in the office...u can always check out the webpage: www.myheritage.com
But u need to sign up..for those cheapskates out there...it is free!!!

hmmm....sometimes i do wonder if there is anyone out there that looks pretty like me.... hmmm... i once heard from a 'wise man' somewhere out there, there is somebody that looks exactly like u....what do u think?? ---> Go FiguRe!

Why WOmen Love Flowers?

2007-07-02T11:32:00.001+08:00

Hmmmm....ladies...ever wonder when your next bouquet of flowers will come?? ever had the thought of "how i wish it was me" when u see the florist sending flowers to your colleague from the next cubicle?? There are some (who wants to be portrayed as the all sooo reasonable girlfren) would say "dont send me flowers, its a waste of money", but deep down inside, is there a glimmer of hope that he would do exactly the opposite and suprise you the next day at the office by sending you a dozen roses?? Women, we love flowers so just admit it..hehheeh and men dont try to reason with us that flowers will die eventually (and giving us the yadi yada that you dont want the flower lifespan to be an indication of the lifespan of the relationship --> such lame cheap excuse to weasle ur way out... heheheh) ... hehhehe...ok...trust us...we never say wat we really want..and this has been going on since GOD knows when... when your girl say u dont have to buy me flowers its a waste of money..LooK deep into their eyes...see if there is a spakle for hope (which is quite subjective..to go into that is a whole blog page by itself)....

What i am going to write about today is "WHY WE LOVE FLOWERS?" BUt before i go into details, i would like to take this oppurtunity to congratulate a dear fren of mine who is not afraid to buy his woman flowers even if it means burning a hole in his pocket...MAH JEE ONN..u deserve this recognition..AH PER...be glad and feel blessed (although now absurb sum of his money is poured into his obsession with figurines..Look out he is going to get JASon soon..)

Since the beginning of time, women have always love receiving the gift of flowers (think Adam giving Eve flowers from the garden of Eden when they were running around naked before biting into the apple..)...Flowers are a symbol of life and beauty...When received, notice how they cheeks turn glowy red and their smiles just come from their heart... Women dont just feel vibrant and full of life...They feel beautiful and incredibly special (notes notes to take)!

Showing that you care and love her with a specially-made bouquet will only increase her affection for you, it will make her feel like she's still the most important person in your life! In the end...who will benefit the most? You! It will only be her pleasure to reciprocate the feelings you garnered her with (hint hint and *wink *wink)

It is obvious that some of u guys out there will only thought of getting her flowers when, YES, you did something WRONG, YES, when you feel bad, and YES, when u want to apologize...BUT (A BIG BUT), for the most part, the best time to give her flowers is when there's no occasion at all. Because when u buy her roses because u messed up, although the gesture is still wonderful, it only act as a cry for forgiveness nothing else!!

HOWEVER, if u buy her flowers just because you want her to know that you love her and she is always on your mind....SHE will feel more attractive and appreciated like never before. The element of surprise (considering there really is no special occasion) will definitely add to her pleasant revelation...What would u get in return?? As mentioned before...she will only be glad to do what makes you happy the most (hmm....so what is it that makes u happy?? welll it is only between the both of u!!! heheeh...i dun know!!)...but on a more personal note...i will definitely spoil my man that day (his wish is my command...*wink *wink)

Well...to make my blog more useful besides being senseless rambling (to quote akmal again)... I would just like to give u a short list of flowers and what they represent!

Carnation--> Fascination (but this i normally give to my mama)
Chrysanthmum --> Friedship (aiks...this i give when i visit somebody's grave)
Daisy --> Loyal love (hmmm...i din know tat)]
Orchid --> Love and Beauty (Wow....)
Red roses --> Romantic Love (the all soo normal but still get the job done)
Pink rose --> Secret Love (ladies, received any lately? Guys, sent any lately?)
Yellow rose --> Friendship (now u know!)
Sunflower --> You are splendid (you bring sun to my life..hiak hiak..Suitable for sunny to jess but then that will be bloody lame..hahah)
Lily --> Purity and sweetness (i knew my favourite flowers mean something..hahaha...like me sooo pure...sooo sweet..hahah)
White Rose --> Innocent love (oh...some sort like puppy love)
Bamboo --> Good Luck (aiks...din kow bamboo is a flower..but anyways...)

SO there u go guys and gals...hope this help u for ur current or next courtship....It's quite likelu that she wont know what the flowers represent...so it would be good if u can let them know the meaning of the flowers and why u got them in a card attached to the bouquet.....BUt...if u know she have a specific flower that she likes...u could always get her that...the reason she told u she like those flowers..mostly so that u can get her those the next time!!! hehehehe....

Hmm....so ladies...i hope that ur man read this article and know what to do next...hehehe...k?? if they still have show no action after reading this..then it is time to reflect on things (hiak hiak hiak,...) but dont go to the extent of dumping him because he do not give u flowers ok?? unless he seriously is not worth having..because there are some people out there who just dont see buying flowers as a point (regardless how good it will make u feel)...but he will find ways to make it up to u!! ok???

HIak hiak...i cant believe i am writing an article on flowers but i do love receiving flowers and its been quite a long time (almost a year) since i received some (dont mean to sound sad...but this is my blog and i am required to share my personal feelings on things..heheh)... soo... hmmm... --> go figure!!

a-z tag by evie

2007-06-28T09:51:00.000+08:00

(Kolok Mee and Kolok Wantan - a must try)

Well…well…got tagged by Ms Evelyn also known to me as SOH POH…also known as Hot MAMA…..hehehe……….

A is for age:
26, hmmm………. Getting older by the days…hahaha….but not as old as Ms Nur Yanti!!hahahahah….

B is for beer of choice:
Not much of a beer drinker but if I have to choose…it will be, “who’s gonna get me another tiger?” Ala Jessica Alba!!hehehehe

C is for career:
Hmmm….I would say GENERAL MANAGER..hahahha…..because we basically need to do everything…hehhehe…from budgeting to counseling to being driver to courier person sometimes also involve cleaning job…But what the heck, I love my instructors….although they could be a bit handful at times but they are mostly taitai’s who need somebody to listen to them talk!!hehheeh…And of coz not to mention the thousands of students that we are supporting…Priceless but still I think we could do more for the least fortunate……

D is for your dog’s name:
LoLo…my beautiful lolo has been with me for 14 years…more than half of my life…love her to bits….I once said or til now still say, “if she goes, I goes…” and one awful monster…Mr Genius…a dog that terrorized the smaller but is a coward for the big…LOSER!

E is for essential item you use everyday:
My Schwarzkopf shampoo and conditional…need it everyday or else I feel uncomfortable….

F is for favorite song (one only) at the moment:
Ohhhh PauLa Deanda...Easy....Damn sexy tune....man are sooo easy (well...according to her)

G is for favorite games:
Aiks…sucker for those lame yahoo downloadable games…now playing nanny tycoon…hiak hiak!!!

H is for hometown:
Miri….. a quite place where crime rates are getting higher….but still a more laid back environment to be in….Famous for its KOLOK mee…

I is for instruments you play:
Organ….a long long time ago…I must say I am not a bad player because I do play for my church!!

J is for favorite juice:
Orange Juice no sugar…love it as it comes!

K is for kids:
Just two again like evie…not too much!! (not a baby making machine!!)*wink wink!

L is for last hug:
Last night…*Wink Wink again!

M is for malls:
Love Malls…Love Shopping…but don love the fact that I cant do it for the next month….(SOB SOB)

N is for name of your love:
………………… (you know who u are)

O is for overnight hospital stays:
None….and touch wood…dun want…..

P is for phobias:
Looking down from high places, being alone and one more thing (not going to mention that stupid little phobias of mine)…hehehe…its between me and a few people!!

Q is for quote:
Is my tagline “Go Figure” a quote??

R is for your race:
Chinese

S is for status:
Single …maybe not!!

T is for things you like:
Traveling, shoes, handbags, having ur company, a good laugh and movies!

U is for underwear:
Lacy hipster…

V is for vegetable you love:
Carrots, Asparagus and broccoli!

W is for worst habit:
hmmm…..worst habit….i dun know…u tell me!!!

X is for x-rays you’ve had:
I think only once….before leaving to Australia for visa’s purposes

Y is for yummy food you know how to make:
Hahaha…I only know how to cook pasta…but will start learning once I have a kitchen!

Z is for zodiac sign:
Pisces…a hopeless romantic…

Now you've learnt my ABC, I want to learn yours too... ;P

And so, I shall tag:
-Jane my mei mei
Ark-mull Senseless rambler
Mah Jee hmmmm unstable dude
Syahira busy body woman
Ili my little ili!!

Well.....i dun know how to end this blog with my usual tagline but anyways....go figure....

Week Long Diary!

2007-06-21T17:54:00.000+08:00

Wow…it has been a Week ago since I updated my blog….hmm…..soo sorry for the delay…its not like I have been busy or anything…well maybe a little coz for the weekends we had the old not so “looking forward to” all staff meeting..which can only spell BORING!!! So that basically spoilt our weekend, although I did managed to watched fanstatic-4 with my BFFs and had a dinner at chilis (again…no money still can go to places like this..NOT HELPING at all ppl!!!)…I am not going to touch on my food intake just yet…would like to take a moment to write about what I have been up to and just sit back and collect my thoughts for awhile and reflect on the past days activities….

Weekend
As mentioned, my weekend just flew me by….the meeting on Saturday, after meeting we had futsal nite…just the guys playing…although I did manage to kick the ball here and there before everybody arrived (so that to me is also exercising –heheheh), Sunday was a little slow in the morning, was suppose to have breakfast with a certain somebody but could not make it…then it was MOVIE time, this time round we watched Fantastic Four – Rise of the silver surfer. Hmmm…some might think that its no good…but I like it a lot…Mr Fantastic and the Humon Torch are sooo hot!! Even the Thing has his cute moments. Need I go into details about how gorgeously Hot Ms Jessica Alba looks – every girls envy…..B-E-A-U-T-I-F-U-L!!!

As a whole, it is a good movie…very light so it is not too stressful for the brain, a feel good movie, where u can just watch and enjoy the beautiful ppl that are in the movie…..I give it a (7.5/10 – nobody fell asleep in this movie (not even DONNA, so well done)!!!

Monday
Works starts again…morning briefing again….sitting in front of the computer screen again…Came out from the briefing frustrated as the MC for the briefing keep pushing ppl to talk when there is really nothing to share…GOSh…why cant they just let it end there…why must there go on asking everybody, ‘anything to share?/ anything to share?’…GERAMnya…Just for once let the briefing end early…sheshhhh….

Then after the briefing another unexpected happened….the TL’s (be it team leaders or ppl who make to TL (tulan)) was supposed to have their meeting…so I was happily chatting away on msn with Donna…suddenly…came a sound from behind…the voice of a person that dare not speak..a voice of a person that cannot speak well …yet spoke…ENG-ENG…kenalah BODOH…kena caught playing MSN during working hours..no thanks to my dear beloved DONNa-Ong!!! Haiz….so wat would an innocent person do??? I said ok…and off my msn screen like a good little girl….until now I dare not to turn on msn…for fear of the eyes….So here I am writing this blog because I do not dare to turn on my msn…got work to do yet just refuse to do….heheheheh…just being unproductive…..

In the evening – had a new date with somebody….a nice person…big but cuddly (hahah…TiTI n Donna don’t freak when u read this)…it was a drink first then when for a few rounds of pool….a dinner and then a movie. Quite a number of things to do in just the few short hours….Movie watched was 200 pound beauty – a Korean flick…again a very light movie…does not require any brain-cells to comprehend, not because it is spoken in a foreign language but because it is just a comedy and watched it just for the laughs of it….Tots on the Date: it was ok…nice company and nice chat…so what more can I ask for?? Heheheh….

Tuesday
Nothing much happened too….was busy with work….

Wednesday
When into office late because had an appointment with the aircon man…then meeting with my instructors ..then found out that I had an assistant training to conduct…gosh…totally forgot about it…no preparation…managed to drag sunny into following me…to help me out when I am stuck!! Thanks ny ny!!heheh I really enjoyed ur sharing on your conviction…hahahahah………

Ok…so that was wat I have been up to lately…well…I think it is time to proceed to my review on my yesterday’s food consumption!!

Morning:
Breakfast
Ø Zhong Zi - it is actually more to lunch (had it when it was around 11.30 – din have time to grab any breakfast)

Afternoon:
Lunch
Ø Two big apple donuts - had it just an hour after the ZHong Zi (also got sounding by Ms Jaclyn coz she’s been eyeing me when I was eating the Zhong..hahah…saying that I am worst than a pregnant lady)…seriously I too dun know why I can consume that amount of food in such short period of time…Anyways Jac…thanks for your concern and congrates on the birth of your baby boy this morning….

In Between
Ø Was conducting assistant training…Ms Su served some refreshement…so I ate a goreng pisang (damn not nice and dry and hard to swallow but must give face mar…so KANG it down)…hehehhe

Night:
Dinner
Ø Claypot pork rib and claypot salted fish (fah lam) and also Oily vegetable
Ø I had the privilege to eat with Ms Donna Ong…but eating with her is never good for my diet plan…coz she always orders a lot and always cannot finish it and always force others to finish….so the two of us manage to eat the above items….haiz..bad bad influence.

After that no snacks…hehehehehe…..

Thoughts on the day:
Overeat…tat is the only word that can describe my yesterday’s food consumption…

THE RULES DOES NOT APPLY HERE BECAUSE I WAS SERIOUSLY OFFTRACK AND NO POINT GOING THRU IT!

So what can I say…not a good day but as a not so wise man once said, ‘tomorrow is a new day.” So keeping my fingers crossed hoping that I will do better tomorrow….why is it so hard to follow wat u really need?? Is it because of what the heart really wants?/ because of the influences of others or are we just born to rebel??? --> Go Figure!!!

2007-06-11T23:50:00.000+08:00

Hmmmm…..

Hmmm….its been four days since I had the what can I call it…ah ya…the calling or the resolution to go on a strict diet with my 10 rules….and wat do I get from it…well besides the weekend high drinking and eating fiesta…I also got the sense of laziness to not update my blog….But since I got to know that Donna is reading my blog…it gave me more meaning in life!!! A sense of importance…a sense of wanting not to disappoint my Fans……hahah…therefore I am updating my blog…

Before I Move on…would like to take this opportunity to say thank you to my mum for sending me money and Donna for being my financial supporter for the time being…And also for the frens that go out and pay the bill first…allowing more time to collect money to pay off and at the same time have the opportunity to enjoy the luxury that u are experiencing as well….Thanks ya!!!!

OK…so now time for the updates on my diet plan….I not going to talk about yesterday…coz cant remember what I ate yesterday….so this update is for today’s eating:

Breakfast:

Mee Goreng tak nak sayur (Devi’s corner)
- It takes up my rule no.3….so no more fried food for the day….Glad that I stick to it…coz for the rest of the day..my eating was pretty healthy….i must say so myself…heh

Lunch:

Steamboat at Johnny’s > include beancurd skin, stuff beancurb and very very little fried rice…
- Although it was consume not long after the breakfast…it is ok ..i think…because we are not suppose to skip meal..hehehe…no good mar….

Dinner:

Chicken Soup at this place that I can never remember the name (a thai mamak at dataran sunway > titi bring me)
- This is a good one…though the soup can be less oily…hehe….must remind the cook next time…..

Thoughts on the day:
Overall I think it is a way better improvement as compared to few days ago…hehehe…

I stuck to
rule no.1 – no carbs after 6,
rule no.2 – no food after 9 (though the night is still young now),
rule no.3 – only one serving of oily food,
rule no.4 - drank a cup of orange juice (I think it is sufficient..you think??)
rule no.6 – minimum alcohol consumption (din have any today, yippie!!),

Didn’t do:
Rule no.5 – hmmm…drank lots of caffeine (tea for breakfast, lunch, latte for breaktime and…actually no water…gosh…wait..going to at least drink some now…)
Rule no.7 – Exercise? Nope…hehehe…wanted so much to join baobao at the swimming pool but hagen daz was there…so…stop myself from being a spot light..heheheh
Rule no.9 – sleep…hmmm…last nite din sleep much…watchie F1 and French open finals till 3 in the morning…hehehe…so need to improve on my sleep time..
Rule no.10 - hahaha….not reviewing on this aspect anytime soon!!

So ladies and Gentlemen…this is basically wat I have been up to….very very mundane life of mine….food and money…wat a winning combination…no money but still can eat like that -à Go Figure!!!

9th June 2007

2007-06-09T17:43:00.000+08:00

Hmmm.....neglected to update my food diary yesterday....was just tooo lazy and it was not healthy ---> my food intake yesterday i mean...and i think today is no better...wakkakkak....

So here Goes....

BreakFast:
Maggi Mee Goreng with Fried Chicken on top (Ali Maju)
Remarks:
Sudah la everyday eat Ali Maju for breakfast...saturday also kena makan ALi Maju...No thanks to certain someone who can only consume food from Ali MAju...haiz....Thoughts on my order?? Aiks...this is a bad start to the day...already go against my rules...WTF!!!

LUNCh:
BuFfaLo Wings & Ice Lemon Tea (Tony Roma's)
Remarks:
Meet up with Titi N DOnna for Lunch After shopping ALONE (ladies i did it alone ok...dun simply think..hehehe)...very very luxurious buddy to be with daimn...sudah lah my wallet almost got...no make it already got hole and moth flying out...still.....good think none of us wanted to order more so the wings was split among the 3 of us...BUT STILL have to pay rm15 each for that meal...GOT DAM it!!

DiNner:
Yet to take my dinner...am a little free after cleaning up my house and now awaiting time so that i can go get my pizza and await my guest to come for my party.....

One thing is for sure...it is not going to help in my plan....coz we will be having lots and lots of booze....pizza's, chicken wings, noodles, cakes, snacks and so on...so wat do u think??? hahahah...of coz already bang my head to the wall...

HOw did i Do today??
Feel Like hanging myself for not doing anything according to my top ten rules...so today i give it a big NO NO and two thumbs down...
Better Luck Next tIme....

We all need a motivator in order to carry out our plan...who is going to be mine??---> GO Figure!

My OnliNe Diet DiarY Starts TomOrrow!

2007-06-07T09:41:00.000+08:00

Hmm....its been a while now since i said tat i want to be hot again..hahahaha....not really hot hot as in Angelina Jolie Hot coz i do not have the features..but a bod nice enuff to heighten my confidence!!! So..ya Ben...i am taking ur advice...althought it was given when you are pissed drunk!!hehhehee.....

A bit of visual for u all....

------------------> ok ok...this might be too ambitious...but u all get the point...

So i just wanna drop 2 dress size ok...for those reading this blog...please keep me on track.....

So how am i going to realize my goal.....here are my top 10 rules:

1. No carbs after 6 (so no indo mee or maggi mee goreng, no roti canai, no rice of coz and also no pasta)

2. No food at all after 9 (this is going to be a toughy, especially hmm....people i know tends to eat at these ungodly hours)

3. Only one serving of oily food daily...(meaning if i were to have ayam goreng kunyit for lunch, i cannot have anymore oily food for dinner..so i need to only have salad or soupy food..eeeeee)

4. At least one serving of fruits daily...(this is going to be tough since i am on a strict budget..buying fruits is at times not an option...but i will try my very best..*YES!! In a trying to psyched myself out kinda way*

5. Lots and Lots of Water...(for me to do this i might kill two birds with one stone...truth to be told...i dun drink as much water as required is because the pantry issooooo far away...and i amm soooo lazy....sooo to walk there requires a lot from me...so if i were to start drinking water...i need to move more often..so there you go moving more means more calories burn...which in a way help me in realizing my goals...so there ala hitting two birds with one stone)

6. MiNimIze Alcohol Consumption...(well...i put this up not because i drink a lot...in fact i hardly drink but seeing that this weekend we going to have a party where alcohol is in the main menu...i just tot it is appropriate for me to mention this)....hahahah...so there u go...only can drink once a month...GOod Enuff?? hmm....maybe twice a month....

7. Oh ya ...almost forgot to mention the all important exercise....So currently wat i am doing is going swimming...sooo...lets stick to it...thanks to my swimming partner (ching ching)...so swimming will be in for every monday, wednesday and friday.....unless nature calls...

8. Join a dance class....this could not only help me improve on my oh so lacking dance moves...it will also of coz help keep me healthy....

9. Get enuff sleep....at the moment...very lack of sleep...always thinking about a certain someone.....and also thinking about financial problems...and also thinking about my tu tu tut fren...my very lonely senior and also my family...haiya...the normal normal things that we think about lah...not to mention work....soo....ya...i need more quality sleep....(aiks suddenly i remember something about a research report i did back in australia about sleep..quality and non quality sleep...goshh....those where the days...i missed all so very much)

10. the tenth activity that can help too...from articles i came accross numerous times...some opposing to it..so for it....hmm.....i am not going to mention what it is but just going to leave them to your wild imagination...maybe i would consider making it a routine too....wakakakkak

So there you go folks...my plans and rules on how i am going to trim my figure....you think it will work??? Why am i doing this?? for myself or for something else??---> go figure....

*PLz do tell me if u have any other tips that i can put into my list!!hiak hiak hiak!!

Just For thE SakE of Wring!

2007-06-05T17:50:00.000+08:00

Hmmm....
Its been a long time since i wrote a blog...actually not that long ago...the last one was after my vietnam trip...

Still thinking of what to write about...should i touched on a little about my Kuantan trip ..*wink *wink...neh...dun think so....all i can say is to AKMAL...what happened in Kuantan, Stays in Kuantan...YA!!!hehehehe....

Ah...i know...i think i will talk about my upcoming house warming party...heheheh...yup...and it is going to be on the 9th June 2007...those who read this..i guess... YOU"RE INVITED...

Date: as mentioned above 9th June 2007
Time: 8 pm onwards
Venue: Of coz my place..Palm Spring @ Damansara
Main Agenda:
There will be a lot of drinking (because i think most of the party people are bringing bottle), gambling (coz most of them are ultimate gambler), and some food (hoping to get sponsors)....

Pre-requirement:
PLease once again i must stress that i do not have sofa in my living hall...so please bring your own cushion...erm....why not bring a new cushion and just give them to me as house warming pressie...so this way my house will look nice and comfy with all of Yous leaving ur marks...hiak hiak hiak....BRILLIANT!!

So thats it...my invitation to u all...please call or drop me a message and let me know if u are interested to join us!!k???

Truth to be told...i do not know wat the heck i am writing about...but just writing this blog for the sake of writing...heheheh....---> SO go fiGure Wat is GoinG on in thIS BraIn of Mine!

All My Bags Are Packed..I'm readY to Go!!!

2007-05-14T10:46:00.000+08:00

This time...my blog is dedicated to two dear friends of mine...very very nice people...loving, caring and also soon to be leaving us in our small working world...

They will be leaving to hopefully better pasture....This photo is taken during our beautiful Ipoh trip at Indulgence...a trip to serve as memories of the times that we were together as a team...a trip that hopefully will not be the last....

The two lovely lass that i am talking about are the two woman seated at the second row from the front...Donna the one in black...jess (can i slap u) chow is the one in pink..........Haiz..........seriously this will be major week for adjustment at the office....

Donna:

Who is going to be my breakfast buddy??

Who is going to TAP the people that triggers me (i.e the stupid song's brother)?

Who is going to make me spend all my money on food??

Who is going to scold me if i end up dating a HAK KU LAK KUAT?

Who is going to trigger me ?

Who am i going to trigger?

- u see how i am going to miss everything about u.....but not to worry..i will still be there for u..just call me and i will be there...cherish all the good times we had..maybe also sometimes bad time (heheheh..these are the things that bring us closer together)....ok?? A new working world, a new sets of frens but always remember we will always be here for u!! take care and all the best for ur future undertakings.....

Jess:

Who is going to keep the dark side of the office bright??

Who nis nis is going to complain to when he is highly unstable??

Who is going to slap Akmal when he is being DUH??

Who is going to put EC back to his place when he is being an Arse??

Who is going to fight for our rights??

Who is going to give me a hug when i need one??

- Again u see...this week is just a sad week...although i know u gals are going for the better and i seriously pray that both of you will get the best out of everything...but still the unwillingness to let go of u gals is in me...so sad...one by one..leaving..............

Maybe i should leave to??? where to??? back home??? overseas??? i dont know...life is full on ins and outs....

Although i hold strongly to the statement "someone better will come along"..still to me, Donna N JEss are one of the best people that i know ----> Go figure Life's Ups and Downs!!

1st time got TAGGED!!hehehehe

2007-05-05T18:20:00.000+08:00

I am currently having mix feeling here now...I dun know if i shud feel excited as this is my first tag (no thanks to my insanely sot great fren Miss Evie Jie (read in the David Kor kinda tune- hiak hiak hiak)..or shud i feel Aiks...coz i am still figuring out how to use this new blog template (created by none other than..yup..u said it...MIss Evie (AGAINNN))..heheheh.....so wat i am going to do now is to just go with the flow!!!

5 things found in your bag:
*My very very very old and kelian company phone - shhh...i cannot complain is my main mode of communication (too stingy to get my own line) hiak hiak hiak...
*My Ipod....music- cant leave without it..cant stand the sound of silence..hehhehe....
*My very very trusty wallet...and also very very 'jungle-ish' with all the credit card and toll receipt (need to claim)hehehe...
*My company camera - must be 24 hrs on standby for business n also pleasure...hia hiak hiak....
*A whole lot of other junk...basically my bag just need some cleaning up..

5 things found on your wallet:
*As Mention before...my wallet is bursting with credit card receipts (no thanks to my serious LLD frens..haiz...)
*Photo of LOLO (my doggie..hehehe...)
*Driving license, IC (u know cards with ur own worst looKing photo very taken- cannot do my 45 degree looK mar..kekekek)
*Credit cards (almost useless coz no more credit for me to spend..already burnn..burnnn)
*Reward points card (its been a long time since i used this card..need to do some shopping already...so long din indulge myself..kekekek...DP sales..Evie wanna join me??) *Wink WInk..

5 favourite things in your room:
*my laptop...how else will i be typing this (no..i dont do this during office hour - AKMAL *hint hint..kekkeke)
*My TV ...a really really extreme tv addict (i learn a lot ok from tv programs..hiak hiak hiak)
*My raul (which is my giant doggy doll whom i so fabulously named Raul after raul gonsales of real madrid...*drool...
*My wardrobe (actually not a wardrobe but my corner for all my clothes..hahha...u wont wanna see me in my baby suit..So not flattering..kekekek....
*my perfume corner...(oh yeah..wanna smell good for u babey)hheheh

5 things you always wanted to do:
*Spain...visit spain and absorb their culture (*wink wink)
*To sit and drive around the circuit in a F1 car with my fernando alonso...heheheh...(what happens later..is up to ur imagination)
*Provide good quality standard for all my centres for the benefit of the children of the world (*sorry frens..i just gotto write this down..just to freak a few ppl out..hahahahha...AKMAL, TITI, DONNA, MAH JEE, NICKY, MAY, IRA, ILI, EVIE..and the list goes on...hahaha)
*To learn belly dancing...will be doing it pretty soon..and soon hopefully i will have delightful hips ala Shakira..hahaha
*To bring my entire family and friends on a holiday at the BAhamas...(includes my long long distance relatives who i might not even know..hahah...just to see what will happen and to spread love as one big happy family) - think Barney's ~I love you..you love me~ We are happy family~~~~.....hehhhehe

5 things you are currently into:
*Hanging with my frens
*reading blogs and having a laugh from it
*snapping senseless but at times beautiful photos of ppl around me and their food...
*shoes...is one pair a week too much...
*dieting...but a problem since i was just back from a really really food packed Ipoh trip...curses to my figure...hahaha

5 people you tag:
*Akmal of coz....
*Nis NIs although u are too busy already but u need to reply...hehe
*My sista...hehehehe...or else u have nothing to write in ur blog...
*Ira since u are my fellow next door neighbour in office..hehehe...
*Mah Jee..hehehe curious to see how creative u can be when replying this blog...hahahha

well...how do i end a tag with my famous go figure line...
Lets see...*go figure why evelyn have all the time in the world to update her blog daily..hehe...not that i am complaining..in fact it keeps me entertain ..its kind of like my bedtime story...hehe....GOD BLESS EVELYN ..hahhaha

Who Handles Break-up Better?

2007-04-20T17:54:00.000+08:00

Hmm.....a typical day at the office..being bored and very very sien...after countless of 'msn' via office email with some also very very sien colleagues...hahah...i finally stumbled upon a very very interesting article (hahahah...which is quite suited for my current situation)...so here goes.."who handles break-up better??" Ladies and Gents..who do u think>??? here's the article...

Written by David Zinczenko (quite a hottie) ---> here goes..

When the Love Boat hits the iceberg, who handles it better? My answer:Women. Several studies show that men experience more depression, distress, and anxiety after break-ups than women do (hahah...u think??). Men might like to come across as being tougher than overcooked steak after a breakup, but the truth is that they're actually more the consistency of jelly. Believe me-I see the letters of hundreds of men desperate for advice on how to win their ex back. Here's why some men come undone during a breakup:

Men Mask Their Pain

When a guy is dumped, his first reaction is: I'll show her. How he Sometimes does it: With a couple pitchers and a night out with the guys. In fact, 26 percent of men say that the dumped party should get drunk with the guys after a break-up, according to a Men's Health online survey. But those beer swillers are actually in the minority: 36 percent say a guy should look at his new ex, smile, and thank her. The thing is, both of those reactions are exactly the same thing-masks for their true feelings. They can't deal with being hurt, or angry, or bummed. It's not until after they get past their initial reaction that men actually mourn the loss of the relationship. Women are more likely to cry soon after the breakup, and they're also more likely to use straight talk when ending a relationship, studies find. So women face their relationship blues head on, and get them out of their systems earlier. Many men tend to repress their reaction, so it lingers like basement mold.(sooo...should i be thankful that i am having all the syndromes that a woman dealing with break-up is having??hahhaha....but ya i like the part that say we will get over it..herh..)

Men Have Fewer Friends (ya and i thank GOD that i have mine!!)

One of the reasons why women can get over sour relationships faster than the guys they breaks up with is that women have an amazing network of people to latch on to (yaya..i agree..hehehhe..). Research indicates that men depend on romantic relationships for emotional intimacy and social support, whereas women are more likely to turn to family and female friends to satisfy those needs. Mothers, sisters, friends, hairdressers, cabbies, whoever-the more times she tells the story about what a jerk he was, the better she's going to feel (see see..so dont blame me for telling the story over and over again...bear with me...i will move on!!hahhahaha). A man, on the other hand, stays corked. Often he shrugs off a break-up with a shoulder shrug, shoots a Jager shot, and tries to convince himself that he's not upset. That is, until about six months later, at 1AM after the fourth pitcher, when he confesses to his buds that all he ever wanted is for Janelle to take him back (won't this be great!! *Evil Grin*).

Men Hate Starting Over (really???)

After the break-up, a man may feel an initial surge of excitement of Future prospects-the women he's yet to meet. But after three, four, or two dozen dates, he realizes that it's going to take a long time to reach the level of comfort he had with his ex. Research conducted at Carnegie Mellon University suggests that women adjust better to the end of a relationship because they've already given consideration to the possibility of a break-up, whereas men are typically unprepared for it. While that sense of emotional security can't be the only reason to stay together, it also makes him realize that he was very lucky to have a woman like her. Meanwhile, she's already moved on. And perhaps the only time he lets his guard down enough to admit the emotional truth is when he's drunk dialing her. And that's too little, way too late.(Murano...where art thou Murano...)

Men Idealize the Dating Game

Many breakups are a knee-jerk reaction to what men perceive as stagnation: He's bored with the same restaurants, the same petty arguments, the repetitive sex. Once he's back on the prowl, he thinks, he'll be bedding 10s and living the high life. After the break-up, however, he quickly realizes that the singles scene isn't all champagne and half-naked strangers--it's work. Instead of the exciting bar scene, he finds that he misses the intimacy of his past relationship. Studies show that women consistently outscore men on measures of social, sexual, and intellectual intimacy—and women are often quicker than men to realize that intimacy provides the foundation of a lasting relationship, not the sexual thrills.(guys out there..u agree??)

So..ladies and gents..what do you thing of this article?? true??? hmm....wat got me thinking is that...wat if the break-up is because he have another?? will he feel the same?? <----help me go figure this out!!and get baack to me!!!

HoUSe HunTing...

2007-04-19T22:25:00.000+08:00

ThIs PhasE of my Life...HouSe HunTing....Why House Hunt??
Well...after Living comfortably for SoooOOO darn long....it is indeed time to move on to another - like i say chapter of my life!! So wat better way to start than to hunt for a new place to stay!!!
HAIZ <---- Evie !! I am going NUts but still looking forward for this saturday's GooD CharLoTTes Concert!!** Imagine me doing a psycho dance**

The Day Basically started with Me and BaoBao taking the afternoon off to do some house inspection...

First stop Damansara MEtropoliton (right above CITIBANK, Damansara Perdana)....'Lucky' for us..we got the so-called seriously young and not so know how to entertain customer kind of agent!! Damn the world..hhahaha...but back to the point...the place was NICCCEEEEEEEE....love the pool side....but the price (tak boleh ler....)..oh ya...did i mentioned that we actually need to wait for quite some time for the keys to come (haiz....time is money u know....) "to all the agents out there...please take note"

Second Place viewed is Damansara Indah..another nice place to stay...facing the golf course (my papa would love it)...sooooo tempted to just buy the place...again...rm2000 per month (seriously out of budget ler..so another no no) ---> oh ya ..the agent for this place is the same as the 1st one....

Then there is this third place (actually i viewed this place yesterday and love it-Dataran Prima) so i brought BAOBAO over just to double check the place and to confirm with the agent (this agent Jeffry is actually DOnna's cousin)...after viewing the place..RM1200 3+1R2B, 2 carpark...seriously it is quite affordable..However..we initially wanted to rent the master bedroom for rm600 but we were thinking "who would pay so much just for a room? might as well pay slightly more for a whole studio apartment"...Wat worst was that we need rm4400 for the deposits and downpayment <---those who know me...where i can have this kind of savings...i am a big spender..no savings for rainy days *note to self: save dont spend..hahahah...

So after hours of wasting Donna's cousin time..we came to the conclusion of getting a cheap place (so of coz not that nice and comfortable lah) to rent for the time being and later i will work on with my papa mama to buy a nice place *evil evil grin*
I seriously felt bad for telling the fellow that we are not interested..nice fellow though which is why i felt so bad...coz his face was seriously kelian!!!hehehehe....

Anyways, lesson learnt from this house hunting experience:
1. NEver Ever be too comfortable with your life at anytime of ur life span (hahahah)
2. Make up ur mind first although time is tight for u to move out!!
3. Make sure the agent is on-time and know how to 'care' for the customers..NO to the first agent...Kudos to the second agent...
4. Always Save MOney for a rainy Day...No MORE DP..No MOre Principles...Sooo Kelian!! hehhehe.....

After my Long senseless rambling....Do you have any advice for me?? Hmm...maybe you have a cheap place that i can rent...3 rooms below rm1000...soo...do get back to me if u have something for me!! ya??
At the end of the day....nothing comes easy.----> Go Figure!!

EeEkkKKkk.................

2007-04-18T16:52:00.000+08:00

NeVer Would In all these years would i thought i Will take EvElyn's ----------->

advice to staRT up a BloG!!! Well......How did this all start...hmmm...

should I start telling all of you my sad sob story...NEH!!! i think i will skip that part....Well...maybe i will touch on that story A BIT!!

Well....wat can i say...I now have quite a hand full of free time not because i am jobless (psst..I love my Job..hahaha)..it is just that Now i dont need to use my energy to care for an extra person (*hint hint...you go figure what it means)....thus..all the time in the world to start this new chapter of my life!!What better way to do it then to let the world know!!

So Just sit back and enjoy my "Senseless Rambling" <--Quote my dear fren Ark^Mull...----------->

and please "Go Figure" what i am trying to do here!!

hiak hiak hiak!!

CiaoOoo...

Luv,
Bernice